RIght now I'm sitting in a public library (Oh so thrilling, I know) but the that's not what I got to thinking about. Inevitably, after a while, I find myself thinking about, reading about, talking about, or googling porn or pornographic things. I know, not weird, right? But It reminded me of something. Why is it so difficult for people to discuss porn or sex? I always feel very awkward talking about it but that just makes me want to do it more. Why do people avoid talking about fucking? Sex? Flagellation? Fellatio? Why do so many words involving sex start with F? Do we just like it? Do we think F's are sexy? Are they sexy? Is it because it looks like they've got a hard on? Why do people shy away from the word vagina? pussy? penis? cock? labia? Why is it so damn taboo to be open about sexuality?
Why is a girl who appreciates the female form automatically a lesbian? Why is it so... gay for men to want anal stimulation? Why do people assume that lesbian is synonymous with slut? Why do people care more about tightness or girth than about charm or skill? I don't understand the stigma. Why are girl's honors tied to their virginity but they get mocked if they actually are a virgin? Why is it so terrible for a boy to have never had sex or to abstain? Why must men be aggressors?
How come some women expect men to save them when they are capable of doing it themselves? Why is there a "weaker" sex? How come my femininity is tied to skirts and lipstick and not to a natural acceptance of my female form?
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